Sunday, June 19, 2011

Happy Father's Day

The Marley and Me Dichotomy
Happy Father's Day to all the dads out there reading this site (mine included). You have one of the more important tasks and jobs in the world and those that would be irresponsible in performing their duty of being a positive role model, mentor, disciplinarian, and ultimately best friend to their children deserve to be shunned from society.

Sadly, with the concept of Black-Run America (BRA) governing every aspect of our lives, it is inconceivable that we could point out the failure of the majority of Black males (nearly 75 percent) in raising the results of their unprotected sexual encounters. 

 OneSTDV published two excellent essays last week, with one being on Liberal Creationists on the Black Family and the other on America's Dying Suburbs. That Black pathologies are now seeping into white America can be largely attributed to our societies capitulation to BRA and reticence to question any negative suspect aspect of Black people in general. We have been conditioned that any criticism of Black people is inherently evil, so we tolerate such negative behavior to our detriment.

The New York Daily News published an article on The Death of Middle America and the disintegration of white working class families. It's a tough read. Check it out here.

I've been extremely close to marriage before. There are times that I wish things had turned out differently, but it was choices I consciously made that ended something special. A lot of my best friends are getting married now; many already are and have beautiful families.

It might be a Beta move of me to write this,but every time I visit one of my best friends, I feel like the character of Sebastian Tunney from Marley and Me.  He was John Grogan's (played by Owen Wilson) best friend and there's a pivotal scene where they run into each other after years have passed since their last encounter.

Grogan has three kids, a great family, and Tunney blows off his invitation for dinner to go try and bang a couple chicks. Not realizing it at that the time - we don't realize the pivotal moments of our life until, sadly, much later - but that would be one of the final movies I would ever see with her.

I tried to live the Roissy lifestyle, well, I did live that lifestyle. The stories I could share.. and I have nothing to show for it. Every time I see my friend or talk with him on the phone, he never fails to bring up my biggest failure. My one regret.

So happy Father's Day to all the dads out there, thank you. Chasing after girls is fun, just as going on that first date with a girl is an enjoyable experience where endless vistas of possibilities potentially await you.

But on a day like Father's Day, I remember how my siblings and I would run into my parents room and give my dad breakfast in bed and the joy he'd have in his eyes.

Roissy (a writer I enjoy reading) and a lot of people believe bedding a ton of random chicks is a revolutionary act in a world dedicated to promoting and celebrating abnormalities. It's on this Father's Day in 2011 that I realize the truly revolutionary act is being a committed father.

So if you are a young person (under 30, like me) reading this, understand that the most revolutionary thing you can do is have children. Be a father or a mother; someones spouse. I know too many people who believe all is lost, that things will never get better and I don't like associating with them.

It is going to get better, and having children only makes you that much more vested in ensuring it does. 

So Happy Father's Day 2011.









19 comments:

Anonymous said...

nice post, really helps put all the bullshit into perspective. i appreciate the service roissy provides but have also become disillusioned by it as of late. the pendulum has definitely swung way too far and roissy's cynacism contributes nothing of true value in the grand scheme. a return to normalcy is much needed. good stand. strong bonding, fathering, and raising close families really are revolutionary acts. its not lost yet

Anonymous said...

I'm in the same boat Paul, just a little older. I'm 29, I've been with over 80 women, but I'd trade it all back to have a wife and a couple of kids by now.

When you have game, you can't imagine wasting it all on one woman. But time goes by quickly, and soon you're about to be 30 with nothing but stories. I can can hardly remember half of the hook ups I've had, but the few special ones are burned into my brain.

Chasing the muff around your whole life is hollow. It's what blacks do, not white men.

Phillip said...

Right on! Roissy, Roosh and Game are nothing compared to being a father of a good family with a good mother by your side and some nice kids. I would rather be celibate than bed worthless women, marry these skanks and waste my energy on them. Quite sadden at the unraveling of whites in them adopting black and hispanics norms.

Anonymous said...

Q: What is the real definition of "confusion?"

A: Father's Day in Harlem.

Anonymous said...

God bless you, sir. Your Father's Day editorial was poignant and struck home. Thank you.

Anonymous said...

Pual,

If you did have a wife and kids, you probably wouldn't have the time or the energy to keep this site going. So when you do finally multiply, I hope you make time to keep exposing BRA.

Anonymous said...

What's the difference between a black guy and an elevator?

An elevator can raise kids.

Anonymous said...

Paul,

It seems a few here are a little too upset about their family prospects.

Hey, guys, you're not even 30 yet! Sure the clock is beginning to tick, but you're far ahead of the game compared to many that are still playing the game into their late 30's and 40's.

You guys (Paul and Anon 3:52) have plenty of time to have families. You already have your priorities straight (90% of the battle, really). Regrets and lamentations are for much later. All you need to do now is look for the right girl (and they ARE around, regardless of what you read on alot of sites).

So get out there and get the life you want! There's plenty of time to enjoy family life, even if you may need to settle down sooner rather than later.

Good luck, guys. There's plenty of civilization still out there, and many still know how to build civilized families.

May a Father's Day bless you and your families soon!

missbosslady said...

My father is gone now, but he was one of the good ones. It really was quite simple. He went to work everyday and came home every night. He never missed an opportunity to play with us kids. We adored him. He was kind but stern, firm but fair and always made us laugh.

My favorite memory with my Dad is when he took me to the father/daughter dance in grade school. It still makes me cry when I think about that night.

My dad was a regular guy and most importantly he was always there. I miss him terribly.

cephalus said...

Thanks for that article. As a man who's been there, I can confirm that, at the end of my life, my greatest satisfaction has been my children. Nothing else that I've done means a damn. Family is all that endures.

Miley Cyrax said...

You can have children outside of wedlock and not have them turn out to be failures. You can still be involved in your child's life. In the long run, genetics, not parental effort, reigns supreme. I intend on trying to have my cake and eat it too, having kids but not being tied down to one woman. Caplan's research is very reassuring for my life plans.

Discard said...

Miley Cyrax: If, as you say, genetics reigns supreme, would you do the White race a favor and not spread your own?
One of the genetic differences between Blacks and White people is our greater tendency to high investment (K) reproductive strategies. You seem to have an r strategist in your woodpile.

Anonymous said...

"You can have children outside of wedlock and not have them turn out to be failures."

Here's a reality check for you...

From the very beginning, children born outside of marriage have life stacked against them. The impact on the child is significant and can be permanent. Being born out-of-wedlock and growing up in a single-parent family means the child is more likely to experience:

Retarded cognitive (especially verbal) development;
Lower educational achievement;
Lower job attainment;
Increased behavior and emotional problems;
Lower impulse control; and
Retarded social development.
Such children are far more likely to:

Engage in early sexual activity;
Have children out of wedlock;
Be on welfare as adults; and
Engage in criminal activity.


http://www.catholicculture.org/culture/library/view.cfm?recnum=1446

Discard said...

The unwanted suitors of Penelope who filled Odysseus' house, drank his wine, abused his servants, and otherwise violated his hospitality, were the sons of heroes who grew up without their fathers' guidance. White men have known for at least 3000 years that boys need their fathers to become men, whatever nonsense some Mr Caplan might choose to write.

Anonymous said...

LOL

Anonymous said...

Reading this Father's Day post makes me wish you'd go after that special gal from your past and make it happen. It's never too late.
Keep up the great work. Love your site and as you say, the number of Those Who Can See is growing by the day.

Anonymous said...

"You can have children outside of wedlock and not have them turn out to be failures"

Please stop trying to justify abhorrent negro behavior, it's sickening.

Anonymous said...

As a happily married woman I cannot fathom any man or woman haplessly boinking everything in sight. When my husband married me (he'd been divorced 10 years) he said he was incredibly lonely.

He went on plenty of match.com dates and other casual liasions. But that's like eating a chocolate cake for dinner. It gives you a temporary buzz but doesn't make you feel very good 1 hour later. Real men would rather have a good old fashioned steak and potatoes.

Any man who reads Roissy on a regular basis is going to end up alone. If a woman boinks you on the first date, what kind of wife or mother is she going to be? Is she going to boink your friend if things get rough between the two of you.

Now since I'm married again, my middle aged friends and my husband's middle aged friends are second guessing their lonely single lives. Instead of being fathers and mothers they decided to be selfish, have no kids, work 70 hours a week to buy all those precious toys and they're now alone. You can't make love to your SUV.

Or my divorced women friends swallowed the lines that Oprah and other talk show hosts blathered on and on about. Why do you need a man? Why are you looking for a man? Who needs a man? On and on and on. These women are single, bitter and lonely.

I LOVE being married. Sure my husband and I fight, but I'd go down the Titanic with him. He's my soul mate. I'd be lost without him. We can go shopping at the local store and still have fun together and we make each other laugh.

I feel sorry for men who still read Roissy's site. It's really pathetic.

Having a warm body in bed at night with the person you love far outweighs the expensive toys and mindless hookups.

Most women want to get married and the ones who say they don't, you don't want to marry. 3 of my single friends who said they'd never marry are now wondering if they missed the boat on the good men they passed over.

attractionreaction said...

ALL marriage is Feminist marriage in all 50 states BY LAW. If you want those of us who have learned Game to get married, you must first change that.